Context refers
to the encapsulating environments within which individuals live(e.g.; family,
friendships networks, peer group, neighbourhood, workplace, school, religious
or community organization, locality, cultural heritage and norms, gender roles,
social and economic forces.). These structural forces shape the lives of
individuals.
Contexts
influence our lives at least as much as individual characteristics do. This is
not tosay that personal characteristics do not matter or that individuals are
not responsible for their actions but to recognize the impacts of contexts.
Context has
become something very critical for me to be aware of both as a professional and
on a personal level because it helps me to partially understand the reason
behind peoples actions. As stated above, even though contexts influences our
lives, the characteristics of an individual still plays a role in the decisions
we make and therefore context and characteristic cannot be separated.
Just to clarify what it is I'm thinking I’ll make an example.
When we see
someone trip on the sidewalk, we often think “how awkward” we're never sure if
we should laugh, look away as if we didn't see it or offer help to show our
sympathy. It’s just an awkward thing to see. But we seldom look to see if
the sidewalk is flawed. This is the same when working with people, we're so
quick to judge each other because of what we see (appearance) that we hardly
take the time to explore the context that helped to shape who they are. It may
be cliché' but it’s true that we need to be kind to the people we meet as each
is fighting a hard battle.
With this is mind I decided
to share the context I grew up in that helped to shape me with my fellow colleagues.
When doing so, interestingly enough I began to find a lot of similarities between
Mariannridge (the community I’m working in) and my home town Lamontville. Just
to give a brief history of where I’m from; I’m a Pedi girl from Polokwane that grew
up in Lamontville (Durban) with my gran and cousins. My home is a 4 room flat
on the top floor and growing up I thought living on the top floor was pretty
cool. Growing up I can’t say I ever remember ever needing something, or ever
having to “sacrifice” something because my gran couldn’t provide, actually my
childhood is filled with lots of good memories of being afforded everything I needed.
When I think about growing up and family, all that ever comes to mind is food
and love (I had so much of that growing up). And I only got to understand what
a family consists of when I started attending primary school at a coloured primary
school in Wentworth. Growing up; to me
family was my gran and my cousins. But
somehow I always knew that mom lived in Polokwane. Mom for me meant the lady that
would visit at most 4 times a year and she’d come with gifts (clothes, shoes,
toys money etc). And it would be the same for the rest of my cousins and their moms
(My Aunts) and it would be fine, it was our norm. Societal norms of family only
got to me when the school teacher would ask me if my mom or dad was coming to
the parents meeting, or if I’d remind my mom to sign the consent form; even friends
at school started talking about their moms and dads. It was such a foreign
concept to me because back at home this was not the norm for me. Obviously I can conclude to say it bugged me
then (had me questing why I wasn’t living with my mom and dad like the rest of
the children), but now that I’m older and I know better, I realized that it’s a
unique family context I grew up in that has helped shape the person I am and
the person I aspire to be.
Family context is just one
structural component that helped to shape me, what still remains is the
community context, the neighbourhood, society, friendships and peer groups I had
formed growing up (just to name a few). As previously stated, all these
structures and more have helped me become the person I am today. I believe I was
able to adapt more easily to the community of Mariannridge because of the
context I come from and due to similarities that existed between the two
communities i.e.; poverty, unemployment, teenage pregnancy, uneducated youth,
drug manifestation among the youth, sexual harassment and abuse etc. I mean I grew
up in an infested environment where the air was thick and filled with the smell
of dead dog and dagga. I lived to hear the screams of the aunty living
next-door as her husband would beat her up almost every day, and then relive
the experience as my friend would tell me about how his father hit her mom. Growing up I knew the difference between the
sound of a gunshot and that of fireworks; lived with rumours of stolen cars
parked next door where police would interrogate my gran to find out if she knew
anything. That’s where I’m from; but I don’t wish to have come from anywhere
else because what I got to learnt from the people I interact with (my lectures
and my colleagues, my clients and my friends) is that it doesn’t matter where
you come from, what matters is how you use what you know; because one can come
from the most conducive context and still have a shitty life and vice versa. We as individuals have to acknowledge that
others, situations and experiences have helped shape the people we have become.
At that we then are obligated to use our knowledge and experiences to positively
shape others.